5 Things You Should Always Tell Affluent Men!

5 Things You Should Always Tell Affluent Men!

A lot of you have asked me,
“Anna, what am I going to talk about with a rich man whenever I go on a date with him?”
Conversation topics are a big topic on its own and of course I’m here to educate you.
It’s definitely something that I teach about in-depth in my online finishing school.
For those of you who are new to my channel, I’m Anna and I teach women high
society skills and elegance. If you want to have this transformation just visit www.SchoolOfAffluence.com and sign up for my program.
So the first thing I want to say with conversation topics with affluent men, is that number one, it’s actually not fully your responsibility to take care of that..
Well okay, it depends… A man is the leader, so he’s the one who should be.. kind of moving things forward. If that makes sense.. So, it’s actually not really your
responsibility about the conversation and what topics that will be covered
during your dates, right? However, there’s a lot of men who are shy, who are very
laid-back and so on.. and with those, you really need to make a little bit more
effort if you are interested in the person and if you really want to seal the deal with him.
So that leads me on to my first and foremost, most important point.
The conversation topics depends on the man you’re with. Please remember ladies, I always say this,
not all affluent men are the same. You have to really be flexible and take everybody into account. For instance, there are these kind of egocentric talkers, plenty of them in high society for sure and usually they want to be the center
of attention and they want to carry the conversation and have monologues.. And then, you have the total opposite which may be a little more shy guy or the more reserved or more laid-back type of persona. So depending who attracts you..
and maybe, you actually are with the probably the most common type. The type that is somewhere in between.
So you have to strategize accordingly.
Depending on type and depending who you want and what character you have.
Because don’t forget, characters have to match right. One talker does usually don’t go well with
another talker.. Well, sometimes they do. But it’s better
to have a little bit of opposite attracts. So if you are with a talker, I definitely advise you to be leading the conversation forward in terms of questions because a talker loves to talk. But not only does this refers to the
talker, this actually refers to the average person in general. Everybody loves to talk about themselves.. everybody loves to answer questions and share something and tell a story. Majority of us do.. unless you are an introvert. So this strategy is very commonly used with majority of affluent men. You definitely want to be the girl who is number one, not interviewing. You don’t want to be putting him on the spot interviewing. So it’s very important that when you are
leading a conversation forward, be generally interested. Ask questions that you actually want to know answers of but make sure they’re not intrusive because
you are a sophisticated lady after all. So you want to act with good manners and etiquette and that is not to ask too direct questions, too personal questions, sensitive questions and of course, intrusive questions. Now, you probably wonder now but,
“Hey, Anna, what type of questions am I going to ask?” It’s actually not that difficult because we do want to avoid sensitive questions like I said.
Like things about money, work, family background.. I mean background, it depends..
There are some ques.. there are some questions that are absolutely appropriate. But you don’t want to like.. start digging into his material life.. and what he owns.. and who he knows and all that. But you do want to go general, especially in the beginning. If the person opens up, you can go a little bit more personal. But take it easy in the beginning, ask him where he likes to travel, where has he been lately.. Any particular interesting experiences that he could share or any recommendations of any sort.. Whether it is travel.. or restaurants.. or events.. or happenings in town…
Talk about food.. Talk about music, culture, events..
Talk about more personal things.. Whether.. what are some special memories to him, who are his friends and what does he do on his free time. Is he passionate about something.. is
he very active in a sport.. If yes, then ask more about that.
The point is not to ask one question and then move on to a total different question.. ..and then a total different question.
The point is, you ask, so what sports do you do and he says tennis and you start asking more about tennis.. ..and then maybe you share
something about tennis.. and then he says something .. ..and you follow up with another
question about that and that’s usually how a conversation naturally progresses. Without it feeling stiff and forced. However, if you are with a person who is not a talker, you are with a reserved-shy guy, the laid-back person.. ..then you might have to be the little entertainer and take over the show.. and that’s fine because there are plenty of women out there who are bubbly, with personality and love to talk. But.. what is it that actually makes a man
tick it is definitely positive things where women do not nag or go all
negative or complain or go drama. Men don’t like that so make sure you stay
avoid the whole area. Don’t be Little Miss complainer.. You want
to leave a positive impression.. So talk only about positive experience.. Share positive stories.. now stories really sell.. ..and they do because everybody likes to listen to a good story that is executed in a very good way.. Gather your best stories and practice how to tell them well.. .. and then you can just use them..
You know whenever you go on dates with different people and usually they work and people get curious.. But make sure..
These stories are what I call “grandparents approved”.. because you do not want to share, you know, that crazy story with that embarrassing horrible moments.. ..that really puts you in the worst life
possible and he starts questioning “what is he doing that with you” type of thing.. You do not want to go that way.. you just wanna keep it presentable..
You want to keep it elegant classy and so on.. So really choose stories that puts you in a good light without bragging.. But you know.. positive stories and interesting stories and fun experience.. ..some memorable things that you’ve been through that you think could be of interest to him.. But before I continue,
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Now one of the very important things that you really must put into practice if you want to be part of high society and mingle with the rich..
That is, to stay updated with what’s happening in the world.. being well-read.. well-educated.. you know.. read about culture.. see things.. do things.. experience things.. so that you have things to talk about with affluent people. Rich men, they do not necessarily need to be overly impressed all the time and you don’t necessarily need to be a brainiac with every man that you meet. But there
are a lot of intelligent rich men who do like to have an intelligent woman to
have a conversation with.
Stay educated.. Always invest yourself mentally.. read the
news.. feed your brain.. do things.. .. experience things.. travel.. experience cultures..
enrich yourself.. If you do this, you will always have things to talk about and conversation will never be dull. Conversation only gets dull when
you stop evolving as a person.. When you just stop there and all you do is watch
Keeping Up with the Kardashians.. .. and of course you’re not gonna have anything to
talk about with the affluent society. But if you read the news and you participate
and you also actively listen in conversation with other affluent people, ..you will start building up a lot of stories.. a lot of insight.. a lot of things
to talk about. But one thing I want to say though with this .. Make sure to avoid this whole politics..
We don’t need to talk about brexit.. or global warming.. or you know, Trump..or this or that.. It’s.. it’s a little bit too much.
You want to keep it simple and you want to keep it. You don’t want to get into any heated
discussions and you know who knows maybe this man has a totally different opinion
than you.. .. and the last thing you want to do is start having a heated discussion with totally different opinions..
It’s not going to benefit you.. .. and ladies.. I’m teaching you this, not so that you become doormats,
but so that you benefit in your life and get the goals you want. Be strategic and
be clever. Now, lastly.. and this is a little tip of mine.
Read the online articles on pages like Psychology Today, Business Insider, Elite Daily.. ..and those type of easy to read.. easy to digest websites. They have a lot of kind of
medium to short articles on all kinds of interesting topics that are great
conversation starters. I usually absorb them quite a lot
because I just find them very entertaining and you know sometimes when
you don’t want to read anything intellectual you can just read something
like that.
You know how many times have I been in a situation where I really used
all these articles that I had read things that I remember, like these random
facts or these events that were unusual.. .. that I kind of reported back because
like we were talking about stories.. If you don’t have any of your own stories
to share, you can share other people’s stories and those are perhaps well, you
have read articles.
For instance, something can start with like.. “I must
tell you about this article that I read.. It was so interesting..”
This and this and this happened and they said this and.. .. this and this article and can you
believe it.. Like this is a very good conversation topic and people will find
you intriguing and interesting because you’re dropping these interesting things
that you have read and that you know.. .. and they will really build an opinion that
you are well-read and well-educated. And ladies, elegant women are well-read.. and are well educated.. we are classy.. We are sophisticated.. we are high caliber.. Just like the high caliber man that we want to attract. So I want you to really
invest in yourself and that’s why I created my online finishing school.. www.schoolofaffluence.com because transformation never stops.. and the more you invest in yourself ladies, the more results you will have on your journey, because like attracts like. Now, if you want to learn more about
conversation topics, I actually have another video on my You Tube channel called.. Five Things You Should Never Say To Rich People So please, go ahead and
watch that video and don’t forget to subscribe if you still haven’t. I will see you in the next video!


  1. DJ Shock Africa says:

    I am in love with your blue dress Anna, gorgeous! I would suggest to ladies to read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. If you don't like reading, you can watch the animated book summary videos of the book here on Youtube, but you will get so much more confident for your dates if you read the book, there's a reason it's been a popular best seller for decades! ;D

  2. marie Mob says:

    Hello Anna !!🙈 I just wanted to thank you for all the amazing work you do 🙇 you're my favorite person on YouTube & my role model 👼 merciii . love from Algeria 💕

  3. Lorena Mariana says:

    I never liked started the conversation with those cliches questions and I think is very in polite at first sigh asked what do you do for living so I’ve been informed about worlds news and I let the conversation flows natural eventually the men ended the conversation telling me everything about him and I leave some mystery about me so he will be interested to know more about me too
    Thanks Anna great topics and great tips!

  4. Joyce Channer says:

    Why is your hair always laid to the side?

  5. Rene 1111 says:

    Show your full outfit! Is this a dress? I LOVE IT

  6. Bianca lo says:

    True, lost a chance with a guy I really like because I had to lead the convo and ended up complaining. Haha I didn’t think he would put me on the spot. He wanted me to talk about myself and it wasn’t my strong suit.

  7. SHERRY Dropauer says:

    That dress looks gorgeous on you!!!

  8. Lazarus Live says:

    Sociology is an interesting topic

  9. Ebby says:

    Thank you for another great vid Anna ❤️

  10. anghela acosta says:

    … if you watch keeping up with the kardashians 🤭🤣

  11. Zoe says:

    Good topic, thank you🌷

  12. Canadian says:

    You should wear a bit more makeup and try a new hair style.

  13. Ghhh Thhg says:

    You look like an actress libaneese. Her name is lamita frangia

  14. Yuly Travis says:

    I love your top Ana always so beautiful

  15. Emma Einarsson says:

    I love white teeth, but it’s so expensive to buy these “facades” 😖 my country it’s almost as expensive as a half car

  16. Nera says:

    Im 17 years and I love your channel, i wanna be as elegant as you. Love ❤

  17. Monica Swavel says:

    Love your outfit!

  18. Darling Rivas says:

    a rich man which I date once asked me what was my opinion about the president of my country. I made the mistake of answer hahahahhah

  19. Dammie Oluokun says:

    Please can u educate us on how to look elegant on jeans

  20. Depalesa Tshabalala says:

    The last point about reading articles and sharing them is such a good tip. I have been doing that for years and I always have people commenting on how well read and interesting I am. And the beautiful thing about it is that you don't have to know a lot about that topic to hold a conversation about it. Just have 2 or 3 comments about it and listen well to what the other person is saying.

  21. Caitlyn FitzGerald says:

    you are so well spoken and graceful anna! i really look up to you as a 20 year old going from a teenager to a young lady. you’re the best (:

  22. Oskar Theme says:

    Your advice re politics is very Epicurean.

  23. Roseline Zhuo says:

    Hi anna, pls recommend good places at Bali ❤️

  24. MARIAM SALIS says:

    A photo of you should be on my vision board

  25. Fattie 2 BaddieTV says:

    Omg , you are absolutely beautiful.

  26. 8Adel8 says:

    I like this video. Educating yourself can also include the acquisition of skills like sailing, scuba diving, horse riding, aircraft and boating licences, water and snow skiing. Conversation topics can then expand to include favourite ski runs – sailing locations – diving spots etc.

  27. frankensensas says:

    Thank you. This dress is wonderful, it compliments beautifly your face and figure.

  28. Craxzy Vaf says:

    Can you share some texting conversation tips please

  29. LittleSharon says:

    I ❤❤❤ your dress tho!! 🔥🔥🔥

  30. Stephanie Omenai says:

    Love your dress Anna! Thanks for your amazing work.

  31. 오언니 says:

    Thank you,Anna. Practical and insightful! Love to see your outfits of a week videos, too!

  32. Thi Swe says:

    You made me laugh with Brexit, global warming and Trump.. 💖

  33. Kuhoo Not Kuhu says:

    Thankyou so much!

  34. Eun Lisa says:

    Hello Anna, I admire your work and appreciate what you do for other girls. I am kind of between of my normal life (9-5 work) and luxury life – which means I met a few rich guys through connections and I think they don't mind willing to provide me more luxurious stuffs. However, I wonder several things at this point ; 1. even if one of rich men makes me a bit uncomfortable (not too much but if he is my bf, I will fight already about it and have stronger voices about it), should i put up with it at a certain level just because he gives me luxurious stuffs and let me have comfortable life? How did you cope with that in the past?? It's simple like how the market works. Demand & supply. Even though I know I am (comparatively) young, attractive, educated, and beautiful above average (I've worked for it!), there are so many other more beautiful girls and a few rich available men. i know my value and of course, I don't put up with any kinds of abuse or violence and anything related illegal things, when it comes to just character or taste (for example, I don't fancy a men talks too much….), should I just pretend that I am attracted to him? I am not sure how to set a boundary when it comes to attraction level… do you know what I mean? / 2. How can you manage your budget or plan your future? It could be really helpful video! You don't have to open up too many private or personal things but it would be nice for women like me to prepare for the (unfortunate) future so that we still keep managing this lifestyle without financial help from men for a certain period of time. Thank you 🙂

  35. Kam S says:

    Lovely dress…details please? 🙂

  36. Gabrielle Lacombe says:

    I love when she said ' enrich yourself' ♥️

  37. Mark Edwards says:

    Ana, I love that outfit you have on, where do you get that! I want to buy one for my sister….

  38. Natali Dimitrova says:

    What books for example we should read ?

  39. glamalot 1 says:

    Obsessed with your outfi!!

  40. Aline A. Batistuti says:

    Talk about book, music, concert… But you have to be interisting, bem smart

  41. Bits&Pieces says:

    This video could not have come at a more perfect time!! Thank you Anna


    This is brilliant and so true. I'm a naturally curious and open person and a good listener, but work hard on my storytelling. I now do quite a bit of speaking for a living which is something I never saw coming but really enjoy. So many people in business networking circles could do with these tips too 😉

  43. Yasmin Alibazoglu says:

    Loving your outfit ❤️😊

  44. Gloria Martins da Costa Pinto says:

    You are getting a lot more natural in your videos!
    Don’t get me wrong, they were always nice, but I have the impression that you feel more confident making the videos.
    It might be difficult to put yourself out there and speak about being feminine in times when acting feminine is almost like an insult to women that believe that all of us should think the same and act like men.
    You are doing great.

  45. H T says:

    Anna , tell us how you manifested your man

  46. SUNRA Victoria says:

    Hello Anna I love that dress you’re wearing, that my type of dress, I collect them where can I get this dress, you may have to start a clothing line just say, let me know I will be your clothes designer or wardrobe designer 👩‍🎨. 🥰🥰🥰👌🤩

  47. Lisa A says:

    Great this is ideal subject material.

  48. t Pate says:


  49. Chris Napelbaum says:

    Great tips for any conversation regardless of affluence. We should always treat people with respect.

  50. Blanca Orozco says:

    I´m a 43 year old house wife, and my husband is a great man, sadly in the las years we´ve had heated discussions on politics, we found out we disagree in many of this topic and notice he got very mad at me, and told me he can talk to me. What a terrible thing. I was cross and sad to know my husband doesn't enjoy me in sharing my mine. You are totally right in saying there is nothing productive in talking this things. Thanks for the avise, it opens my mind to make more pleasing conversations.

  51. holly holly says:

    Anna i love youuuu♥️

  52. Miss Fox says:

    Active listening!! SO important and underrated.

  53. Bi Anca says:

    Do you think you can make a video about your taste in music?

  54. Mia Mixx says:

    I want to make to into the circle of affluence without a man… What are your advice?

  55. Albertina says:

    Anna, can you do a video about tips? For me as a young woman it will be very educating.

  56. Anoek66 says:

    Can you do a closet tour😇

  57. Sati says:

    What are some elegant poses for photographs? I am always very awkward with that.

  58. LindaLee says:

    These date tips sounds like normal date tips to me. Either I’ve been dating rich men that I don’t know of or rich people date just like normal people.

  59. linda handley says:

    You rock!

  60. Purple Rain says:

    I figure out this as well, totally agree with you.
    If you don't "feed" your brain with new informations, you are becaming like empty shell.. I really love read about other countries, visit museums and speak with people about cultural differences, I think your video has good point.

  61. Jennifer Wilder says:

    I like to listen to educational channels on YouTube while doing my hair and makeup in the morning. There are subjects I'm interested in and I'm learning at the same time

  62. got2bekd says:

    Also, smiling and having a good sense of humour attracts men! (not overboard though!)

  63. LBC Santiago says:

    I really like this video. I am already married but when we go out to a nice place I don't like to look like an outsider. My husband and I come from humble upbringing but at times we have to deal with very elegant customers. They are always impressed how we fit in. I am very well read and informed; they appreciate a good listening ear. Good Manners and good conversation take you a long way.

  64. armfrosting says:

    Anna you look so good. Is that a dress or top? & who designed it? Sky blue looks so refreshing on you. You should wear the color more.

  65. K. Sa says:

    What a beautiful dress! I would love to see you put together some look-books: for different seasons, destinations, or occasions!

  66. K Freeman says:

    Beautiful top or dress…

  67. Maria Soto says:

    1. It depends on type of person. Ask them non-intrusive questions i.e. hobbies and find mutual interests.
    2. Share your best positive stories.
    3. Update yourself with culture and continue to learn about yourself.
    4. Keep discussions simple to digest i.e. summarise articles that you have read.
    5. Try to avoid political discussions and other topics that could become heated between both of you.

  68. Daisy Wambui says:

    Good points. A rule that works, when dating and interacting with others, steer clear of topics that are likely to have very strong and maybe even polarizing opinions or those that have an emotional element to them like, religion, politics, sex, your stand on social matters etc. If they do come up during early days, make it brief and general. As you get to know each other, over time you'll find out how best to approach the topics with the specific person when they do come up.

  69. Thereza v says:

    Ana, I love your vlogs! I am curious if you’re married to an affluent man ?

  70. BaBa八八 says:

    Well-read and well-educated. Totally agree with you

  71. Camilla Beauty Tricks - Canal em português says:

    One more amazing video!

  72. Bakerygo says:

    Even though I'm not looking for an affluent man and I'm too proud to ask anyone money of gifts, I find your advises in general very good and that they can be applied to anyone woman or man, rich or poor. A high caliber woman is not defined by her cloths (within certain limits) or the brand purse she carries around.

  73. Steph Perez says:

    You are simply outstanding !! A beacon of elegance and civility in a world that has become alarmingly vulgar and crass – especially the young women!!! Brava darling 😘!

  74. Raquel Andrade says:

    Hi Anna! How about a video on how to interact with "high Society" ladies and to mingle with them? What type of conversations/topics? Thanks

  75. Bad Barbie says:

    Just be yourself 😂😂

  76. C for Chi says:

    You are sophisticated, elegant,I mean…. everything👌

  77. Kerri B says:

    I just stumbled upon you this week. Thank you for this. You and your content are wonderful. This is well rounded, sound advice for ladylike conduct and manners.

  78. sarah hassan says:

    Your makeup is a goal

  79. Madiha Hussaini says:

    Can i pls be the first one to get a Scholership for ur school.
    Love ur vids❤❤❤

  80. Lynne Dumas says:

    I love your dress! These pointers are good for talking with anyone.

  81. Heidy Preston says:

    You look flawless, would you do a video with the makeup you are wearing in this video please ?🙏🏼❤️.

  82. amina benlifestyle says:

    Please some one can give me the artical website that she talk about ?!

  83. Hillary Le says:

    I’m in a pretty long term relationship, and still this advice is good for remembering how to communicate and make the other person feel special too. Whether it’s a first date or 5 year anniversary date, it’s good to show this respect and care and not getting lazy. Thank you!!

  84. randomuser1105 says:

    Women can be leaders too, not just men.

  85. S. says:

    You are just perfect !!!

  86. Brittany Hodge says:

    You should do a video about how to dress feminine and classy while being a mother of toddlers… realistically 🙂

  87. Sara Loscalzo says:

    Anna- or anybody- i have a question! As a college student, where should I meet affluent men? I am on a budget so I can’t fly to Europe, so how can I find a wealthy, kind man and lock him down?

  88. Emerald says:

    I agree with most of what you are saying, but I don't think women should avoid the climate change and global warming issue in a conversation, especially with affluent people. These people are often in powerful position to influence positive change for the environment and toward a more sustainable future. I truly believe the key to save this planet in the hand of beautiful and elegant ladies who truly care about the state of the world and the future of their children. Women need to start putting more pressure on men at the top on that subject. I personally think that any men or women who consciously decide to avoid the subject of the global climate issue, because it is an uncomfortable one to discuss, deserves to stay in the "boys" and "girls" category and are not mature enough to be dating and partnering up for evolution of humanity. We now live in a time where we need to "own up" to the mess we created on Earth and start listening to women, who tend to have a more organic and creative thinking. We can't afford women to stay silent on this subject… Just as a reminder, while I am writing this, the Amazonian rainforest is burning down… We are not pretty little silent butterflies, it is time for the lioness in us to start roaring, enough abuse has been done to our Mother Earth. The first step of change is taking responsibility.

  89. Marta dh says:

    why do I feel this kind of women is what got poor Melania Trump where she is today 🙁 if only someone had taught her she can become her own affluent man. You don't need a man to do it for you.

  90. Happy In Love. says:

    Love your videos, thank you for sharing.

  91. Real Talk says:

    Hi i want to thank you for your unique way of teaching.I dont need a rich man but this help me to be more classy. Forever gratefull x rose

  92. jamillas28 says:

    Highlights “ Feed your brain “ and “keep it simple” like that

  93. Nancy Kashyap says:

    I wonder can you actually get into a high society circle with having a channel about it. I mean don't they see you as a threat. Like somebody who teaches people how to bag a billionaire.just wondering , no hate just curiosity as I appreciate your openness and honesty.

  94. interred321 says:

    what to say when you go to date with a rich men?!? This is so DUMB!

  95. Lynn Hurley says:

    Literally you have nailed it!. All gentleman are not alike. You are so correct in not stereotyping affluent men. Our current culture has a paucity of truly feminine ladies. You are teaching invaluable skills that showcase an elegant woman of class. You are bringing back lost arts of manners, grace, civility and etiquette.

  96. Audrey Smith says:

    Thanks to all the great advice

  97. Jo x says:

    Anna, love your dress you look gorgeous in this video. Can you do a video about you such as your favourite perfumes, movies , songs, TV shows , books etc I am intrigued by you and want to know more about the things a classy woman such as your self loves

  98. Pre Pre says:

    Anna your dress is stunning it's giving me vintage style 😍

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